"There have been times while I have been reading that I can actually feel the brick on my chest get heavier, and heavier. But then I remind myself that you are not supposed to love the pain, but you are supposed to appreciate the lessons that come from the pain…while it will be such an honor to give this work to our Project Grace participants, what I really look forward to is their receiving the immeasurable gifts from reading your story."
- Carole Mahoney Founder and Co-director, Project Grace
Sausalito, CA
"I bought a copy of Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare for a couple in San Francisco who recently lost son…it has touched them and they are going ot reach out to The Compassionate Friends for support. ..this book creates hope and community for all who have had the sadness of the experience that we have lived."
- Mark Yowe Bereaved father,
San Francisco, CA
"It is incredible to think of all the lives you will touch and give a helping hand to through Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare and the discussions around it."
- Sue Wilson, M.D.,
San Francisco, CA
"What an exceptional book Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare is. I read it all in one sitting, unable to put it down. This book will touch many of us who didn’t have the privilege of having for a therapist."
- Kathy McNicholas,
San Francisco, CA
"I have read and reread Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare. It has so much information to absorb…the book should be read by all."
- Priscilla Fitzgerald,
Sydney, IL
"You will never know how many lives and hearts you will touch with your book Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare."
- Monica Wieshaupt,
Las Vegas, NV
"Thank you for such a brave book."
- Dana and the Events Staff, Book Passage,
Corte Madera, CA
"What a feat you have accomplished in producing this story on behalf of Kristen and yourself. I really don’t know how you did it, with all the emotion attached, but it is terrific, powerful and beautiful. It is magnificent…a marvelous communication."
- Jack McAnninch, M.D.,
San Francisco, CA
"You have given meaning to Kristen's death throughout your years of counseling and now will be able to reach so many more people with Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare."
- Susan Lake,
San Francisco, CA
"Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare will be a great source of comfort and strength to thousands of people."
- Betsy Scarborough,
Belvedere, CA
"Your book is such a gift! I only wish I had known about it when my husband died. It is the most helpful and sensitive book I've read dealing with ambiguous (unexplained loss). But, it also helps so much when dealing with the "death" of any dream. Your beautiful book has given me strength and faith in the human spirit to rise above."
- Marilyn Snyder,
New York, NY